My friend Isabel recently asked me about my must haves for new parents, and it inspired me to post about all the things I wish someone told me as a new parent. First, cherish this time that you're welcoming your first child. It might be your one and only or it might be one of many. But, it will be a very special time because this child is what makes you a mom for the first time. I think back on the time when I was caring for Ethan as a baby, and it just seemed so innocent and special then. Also, you cannot spoil your baby. Nevermind what parents from an older generation say; It is not possible to spoil a baby. It's true that the baby will develop habits based on what you do, but there is time later for setting good behaviors. It's true that you don't need a lot to take care of a baby, but there are some things that are around these days that make life a bit easier. I remember reading Charles Duhigg's "The Power of Habit" book last year and how i